Showing posts with label blessings. Show all posts
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Wednesday, September 8, 2021

Hedgehog Blessing (for Back to School)

 Psalm 116: 5-7 "Gracious is the Lord, and righteous; our God is merciful. The Lord protects the simple; when I was brought low, he saved me. Return, O my soul, to your rest, for the Lord has dealt bountifully with you. 


BACK TO SCHOOL BLESSING FOR CHILDREN & TEACHERS

AKA. HEDGEHOG BLESSING

By Kara K. Root

 

(Prior to the blessing, 

anoint children and teachers with the sign of the cross, “Name, You are a Beloved Child of God”)

 

Children and Teachers –

God made the sun and the moon, the night and the day, the oceans and the land, the sky and the animals; God made the hedgehog and God made you.

 

So to send you back to school this year, we are giving you a special ‘Hedgehog Blessing.’

 

Beloved Children of God:

As hedgehogs roam far and wide and investigate the world, may you have room to discover and grow, may you be filled with curiosity and wonder, may your body move, your heart thrill and your mind explore.

 

For Discovery, Curiosity, Wonder, Movement and Exploration, we pray.

God, bless these beloved ones.


As hedgehogs are the most deeply hibernating creature on the planet, and have no problem curling up for a nap anytime throughout their waking days, may you take many breathers and breaks when you need them: brain breaks and mask breaks and friend breaks and screen breaks. And may you know when to let go and relax, and when you are tired, may you find deep rest.

 

For Rest, Breaks, breathers and relaxation, we pray.

God, bless these beloved ones.

 

As hedgehogs are very vocal with their grunts and snuffles and squeals, so may you speak up and speak out.  Share your joys and your sadnesses, your worries and your celebrations.  May you make new friends and listen to their grunts and snuffles and squeals too, because we are all in this together.

 

For speaking out and for listening, we pray.

God, bless these beloved ones.

 

As hedgehogs’ quills offer protection but do not sting or injure, may your heart and mind and body be guarded this year.  And may you work out conflict in ways that bring peace instead of harm, because in Jesus Christ, we all belong to each other.

 

For guarded heart and minds, we pray.

For working out conflict without harm, we pray.

God, bless these beloved ones.

 

The hedgehog was for ancient peoples a symbol of resurrection, or life after death, because God made the hedgehog immune to snake venom.  So, like the hedgehog you too are protected; mean or poisonous words cannot destroy you, and mistakes and struggles do not define you.  

Who you are in your deepest self is already completely known and loved by God: You are a beloved child of God, Jesus holds you secure.

As the ancient Greeks used to say, “The fox knows many things, but the hedgehog one important thing” – so may you remember this one important thing, and I invite everyone to repeat it after me now: God loves me, now and always.

All: God loves me now and always.

 

For Protection and understanding, we pray

To know the one important thing: “God loves me, now and always,” we pray,

God, bless these beloved ones.


As hedgehogs curl into a ball, may you too let yourself feel your feelings. If you are sad or angry, scared or worried, God will join you there and hold you in it. And as hedgehogs enjoy being held, and not forced to come out of their ball but allowed to uncurl when they are ready, may you trust that you are held in God’s love, and it’s ok to just rest there, and not to move on to action too quickly.

 

To feel all their feelings, we pray

To trust God is holding them in love, we pray

God, bless these beloved ones.

 

As hedgehogs lose their baby spines and grow adult ones, first of all, many of you will lose your baby teeth and grow adult teeth, which we will celebrate with you as milestones of growing up.  But also, all of get to let go of the ways we use to protect ourselves that no longer serve us, and grow new, brave ways to stay both connected to God and other people and true to ourselves.

 

For milestones of growth we pray

To let go of what no longer serves them, we pray

To stay true to themselves,

and connected to others,

we pray,

God bless these beloved ones.

 

God made hedgehogs with a strange ritual. When they discover a new scent in their environment – some kind of plant or object they don't recognize - they will lick and bite it, and make froth in their mouths that they paint onto their spines with their tongues.  This is called “anointing” and helps them adapt to their surroundings.  You have been anointed today as a beloved child of God.  So like the hedgehogs, may that make you brave to be in whatever places you are this year, may you have courage to face new and different things. May you be resilient (which means that you get better and better at recovering when hard things happen), and may you be adaptable (which means you get good at adjusting to changes).

 

For courage, resilience and adaptability we pray,

God bless these beloved ones.

 

As hedgehogs are clever and resourceful, such as knocking a grape off a vine and rolling over onto it to stab the grape onto its quills and carry it off, so may you find creative, joyful and imaginative ways to navigate challenges, and to find and hang onto the sweetness in this year to carry with you and share with others.

 

That they may be clever, resourceful, imaginative and joyful, we pray.

That they may taste life’s sweetness and share it with others, we pray.

God bless these beloved ones.

 

God of the whole universe and of the hedgehog too,

bless these children and teachers with all these things, and in all these ways,

as they begin a new school year.

Amen. 


 

Blessing written for the children and teachers of Lake Nokomis Presbyterian Church, September 5, 2021.  

Each child and teacher received a stuffed hedgehog for their backpack.

Copyright Kara K. Root. May be shared and used with attribution.  

In addition:


The following may be printed onto a TAG to be attached to the hedgehogs: 


Discovery, Curiosity, Wonder, Movement, Exploration.

Rest, Breaks, breathers and relaxation.

Speaking out and listening.

Guarded heart and mind.

Resolve conflict without harm.

Know one important thing: “God loves me, now and always.”

Protection and Understanding.

Feel your feelings: scared, glad, sad, worried, calm, afraid.

Let go of what no longer serves you.

True to yourself.

Connected to others.

Brave.

Resilient.

Adaptable.

Clever.

Resourceful.

Imaginative.

Sharing.

Joyful.

 


Friday, May 8, 2020

Even the hard parts

Daily Devotion - May 8

I will send a brief message each day
while we are pausing gathering in person.
- Kara


Good evening friends!

Today got away from me. I realized at noon I was still in pajamas, and hadn't yet brushed my teeth. I sat down at my computer at 8 am and didn't do all the things on my well-thought-out list, but did other things instead. Mostly stupid, pointless things.

But, as NVC (compassionate communication) teaches us, every No is a Yes to something else, so it's a chance to be curious about what I was saying Yes to. What was I needing? Spontaneity?  Freedom?  Rest?  Mourning? 

My daughter went outside (in the 30 degree weather) this morning to eat breakfast in the driveway so she could talk to the neighbors eating breakfast in their front yard.  They wore mittens and hats and wrapped their legs in blankets.  I just called her in at 4 pm.  Her seven hour breakfast tells me she may have been needing Connection. Freedom.  Hope.  Rest.  (Schoolwork is so secondary to those things right now).

It was a session (church council) member who helped me make a mental shift.  She issued a gentle invitation in a session email that maybe NVC can help us through this - feelings and needs, we're back at feelings and needs. She was not wrong. It is helping me.

I am grateful for you, today, Church. I got an envelope with the mail from church - a couple of lovely cards and notes.  I had several email messages this week from church folks.  Session is praying for each other.  We are all reminding each other we are here for each other when things get hard. We are all helping each other through this. We are being Church.  
Next week I will be taking a few days off.  One of you will lead coffee hour. Another will preach next weekend (I'll be there).  I am so grateful.  This meets my needs for rest and care, for freedom and space.

Today our our country's brokenness feels close at hand. Our deep sins of racism, self-righteousness, division, hatred and judgment are plastered all over social media today.  They're tangled up with our deep needs for mourning, and justice, for wrongs to be right, for humanity to be upheld, for our belonging to feel real and palpable, for ease, for hope.  Come to think of it, that crazy cocktail of high intensity might be part of what had me pinned to my chair in my pajamas til noon.  

But this day - like every day - had beauty and gifts too. The persistent sunshine. World's easiest peanut butter cookies.* A preschool moving forward into the future in our church basement.  Us - you -  praying for each other.  A youth group zoom meeting and a confirmation kick-off.   A child who remembers her belonging.  

Life is a gift- even the hard parts. God is with us - all the time. This is grace.
No matter what, we belong to God and we belong to each other. 

What are the feelings you've had today? What are you needing?
What beauty do you notice in your day as you look back? What gifts?
What do you need to mourn?  
What is giving you hope? 

*( 1 c peanut butter, 1 c brown sugar, 1 egg, 1 tsp baking soda, 1/2 c chocolate chips, 1/2 tsp vanilla  - optional little handful of oats - Bake 350 for 10 minutes)

CONNECTING RITUAL:

Perhaps tonight before bed, whatever time that is in each of our homes, we and so join our souls with each other and the people of the whole earth:

We are singing this on Sunday, and it's a blessing for us all - read it through a couple times. 


We are held in God's grace.

Only Grace, by Hannah and Lenora Rand
Things are broken here
things are shared
things are carried here
hearts bowed in prayer
            It is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us together here
            it is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us all together here
            all together here
Things are dying here
things are torn
things are growing here
and burdens born
            It is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us together here
            it is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us all together here
            all together here
Amazing grace
hear the sound
here is where
hope is found
            It is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us together here
            it is grace, only grace
            that brings us here, holds us all together here

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